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Carlisle Board Institutes Sliding Scale Fee For Driveway Culverts

Written By The Mountain Eagle on 1/16/25 | 1/16/25

By Chris English

CARLISLE — Town of Carlisle residents who need culverts as part of their driveways will be paying more starting this year.

At their Wednesday, Jan. 8 meeting, town board members on the recommendation of Highway Superintendent Mike Broadwell voted to approve  a sliding scale driveway culvert installation charge. Instead of the standard $25 driveway permit fee previously charged by the town on all driveways, residents who need culverts as part of their driveways will now pay a variable charge depending on the size of the culvert. The minimum charge will be $150.

Residents who don't need a culvert for their driveway will no longer pay any fee. Broadwell said the change was needed because the town was not coming close to covering the costs when he and his crew installed driveway culverts. Under the new system, residents who need culverts will also continue paying for the culvert itself.

Broadwell said the newly approved charge should at least cover the cost of stone used in the installation of driveway culverts. 

"We're still not charging for labor and equipment," said the highway superintendent, who pointed out that his crew will also continue maintaining the driveway culverts for life at no extra charge to residents. The new charge was included in 18 organizational resolutions for 2025 approved at the Jan. 8 meeting. Others included fixing salaries, approving other annual fees and establishing the first Wednesday of every month again as the day for town board meetings.

In some regular business at the meeting, there was some brief discussion on the ongoing issue of a 20MW solar power facility that is more than likely coming to a parcel of land in Carlisle and the neighboring Town of Seward.

While the New York State Office of Renewable Energy Siting has not yet issued a final permit for the facility, most in Carlisle and the surrounding area believe that is only a matter of time.

"I've got to think it's coming at any time," Carlisle Supervisor John Leavitt said of the issuance of the final permit. The town boards in Carlisle and Seward were among many officials and residents who fought hard against the facility, saying it will have detrimental environmental and other impacts.

Bill Toohey, member of a local group called Citizens Against Solar Assault, complained at the Jan. 8 meeting that ORES has not included in the record for the project many submittals by CASA, While Leavitt said the developers of the solar facility have already done some road improvements in the area of where it will go, he, Toohey and many others continue to worry about the impact heavy truck and other traffic generated by the facility will have on roads.

"I will be on the road every day and my camera will be burning up," Toohey said.

"We'll fight the fight, but I can't sit here and say they aren't going to make a mess up there," added Leavitt.

Carlisle Council Member Mary Tillapaugh reported at the Jan. 8 meeting that the town's annual Christmas Party held at the municipal building on Crommie Road in mid-December was a big success.

"It was wonderful, it was packed and everyone had a grand time," she said.


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C-R Girls Dominate MCS

MIDDLEBURGH - The Cobleskill-Richmondville girls held the Knights scoreless in the second half on the way to  58-10 win Friday night at MCS.

The Bulldogs led 12- after the first eight minutes and 31-10 at the half before outscoring Middleburgh 27-0 in the second half.

On Wednesday, the Middleburgh girls lost at NDBG by a score of 35-13. 

The girls struggled offensively but played their best defensive game of the season. Payton Yung led the team in scoring with five points. Brianna Simmons was the next leading scorer with three points. 


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Author Seeking Time with Vietnam Veterans

UPSTATE NEW YORK — Author/historian Robert Yott is in search of Vietnam veterans for his new project “Vietnam Veterans Share Project.” This project is meant to provide a forum for veterans of that war to talk about their experience during one of our country’s most turbulent times since the American Civil War. Yott has written extensively on the history and care of local war veterans. He would like to publish his findings in 2025, the 50th anniversary of the end of the Vietnam War. 

“The men and women who served in Southeast Asia were often unfairly identified as agents of a deeply flawed national policy. Many returned to a nation deeply divided by an unpopular war; there were no parades or fanfare. Their voices were often stifled by the hostile reception they received.  This project is intended to give a voice to those who served honorably but were rewarded with no honor,” he said. 

Yott has requested Vietnam Veterans contact him at vvs50th@yahoo.com to arrange a personal interview or request a questionnaire covering issues before, during and after the veteran’s in-country service. Or check out https://www.facebook.com/share/g/NusiRQQpm9bcHCYT/ for more details.


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Mohawk Valley Library System Announces Partnership with Senior Planet, AARP

SCHENECTADY – Providing lifelong learning opportunities is a core value for libraries and  library systems. To meet the needs of older adults, Mohawk Valley Library System (MVLS) is  launching a new program to help them learn new skills, save money, get in shape, and build new  friendships.  

MVLS will partner with Senior Planet from AARP to offer a wide range of classes and  workshops about technology, health and wellness, and socialization. These programs are being  coordinated by Mary Carrier, Technology & Growth Consultant at MVLS. 

“It is vital to provide opportunities for older adults to stay engaged and connected. Lifelong  learning is extremely important in our society,” said Carrier. 

Through a partnership with the non-profit Senior Planet’s licensing program, MVLS will offer  Senior Planet’s proprietary curriculum beginning in January. Senior Planet programs are offered  in-person and free of charge to adults over the age of 50. These programs are designed around  five impact areas: financial security, social engagement, creative expression, health and wellness,  and civic participation. Senior Planet’s purpose is to enable older adults to come together and  enhance their ability to learn, work, create, exercise, and thrive in today’s digital age.  

The Senior Planet curriculum includes nearly 100 lectures, multi-week courses, and workshops.  Popular lectures include “Everyday Uses of AI,” “AI & Disinformation,” “Mindfulness Apps,” “Messaging Apps,” “Ridesharing Apps,” “Online Shopping,” “Online Health Resources at a  Glance,” “Intro to Estate Planning Resources & Tools,” “Tips for Being News Savvy Online,” and much more.  

Kim Zimmer, Director of The Community Library in Cobleskill, joined Carrier to complete their  certification as Senior Planet trainers. Zimmer and The Community Library will offer lectures  and courses throughout the year to the community they serve. Carrier will also provide Senior  Planet classes in Fulton, Montgomery, and Schoharie counties.

“We look forward to hosting a diverse range of classes and lectures at the libraries within our  system. We welcome the opportunity to expand those educational opportunities to community  groups, non-profits, and social service organizations throughout the region,” said Carrier. 

Organizations interested in hosting Senior Planet lectures or course presentations can contact Mary Carrier at mcarrier@mvls.info. For more information, visit https://www.mvls.info/senior planet-classes/

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New Ownership for American Hotel

New Owners of the American Hotel in Sharon Springs, NY Michael Palaia and Marco Braeutigam


By Alexis Pencar

Sharon Springs - The beloved American Hotel in Sharon Springs, NY is now under new ownership! This quaint and well known bed & breakfast with restaurant and bar has been purchased by Michael Palaia and Marco Braeutigam who have “embarked on a mission to carry forward Doug and Garth’s vision, delivering an exceptional boutique hotel and restaurant experience”.

In an exclusive interview with Michael, he offered, “there won’t be abrupt changes, but there will be some upgrades, including a brand new kitchen.” The couple have recently moved from Tranquility, NJ, for this opportunity and said, “it really felt right from the beginning”. The process started Memorial Day in 2024 and though there were some delays in closing, the sale is final and the American Hotel will continue on.

Bringing 40 years of Hospitality experience to the table, Palaia is no stranger to this business. After a few projects are completed, the new owners look forward to welcoming guests back to this historic location for overnight stays in March and then the exciting reopening of the restaurant & bar to follow in April. 

As many of you may know, this *hotel* was originally *built in 1840 by Nicholas LaRue and was* purchased by the late Doug Plummer and Garth Roberts in 1996 after it had been abandoned for nearly 30 years.. Following an extensive five-year renovation, the American Hotel proudly reopened its doors on May 23, 2001. Doug and Garth played an integral role in the Sharon Springs community with Doug serving as Village Mayor from 2013 until his death in December 2023. This hotel has been a beloved getaway, hosting numerous special events throughout the years.

With large shoes to fill, Michael and Marco are ready for this next step and understand the importance of the hotel’s history, particularly the successful last 24 seasons under the previous owners. The American Hotel will continue to be a cherished destination and cornerstone of the community, offering a blend of historical charm and modern amenities. 

Under this new ownership, the American Hotel remains a testament to the Village of Sharon Springs’ revitalization and will always remain a favorite spot for visitors and locals seeking a historical and memorable experience. Please join me in welcoming new American Hotel Owners, Michael Palaia and Marco Braeutigam to Sharon Springs! Look out for more updates to come!


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New Venture Band at Red Shed

New Venture Band at the Bison Island Harvest Festival in October (missing Roger Shafer). Catch them at Red Shed Ale House on 1-18 from 6-8 PM!


By Alexis Pencar

Cherry Valley - Check out the New Venture Band at Red Shed Ale House in Cherry Valley this Saturday January 18th from 6:00-8:00 PM! This is a “new to you band” made up of previous local bandmates coming back together!

New Venture Band is made up of Bill Makarowski on drums, Roger Shafer as Rhythm Guitar and Vocals, Rusty Mento on Lead Guitar and Vocals, and Steve Minich on Bass Guitar and Vocals. They will be playing older country hits, southern Rock, and bluegrass tunes!

Their most recent event was at the Bison Island Harvest Festival in Sharon Springs this last fall and the whole crowd was dancing!

Head out for a night full of fun AND check out the newly renovated Ale House too!

Red Shed Ale House is located at 10 Main St Cherry Valley 13320. Please visit their social media or call (607) 264-5303 for more information.


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Ki i ‘no Hawai’i, a Solo Show of Work by Elaine Mayes, Opens at the Roxbury Arts Center




ROXBURY — Ki i ‘no Hawai’i, a solo show of work by Elaine Mayes, opens at the Roxbury Arts Center on January 25th with an Artist Reception at 3:00p. The Roxbury Arts Center is located at 5025 Vega Mountain Road in Roxbury, and the Artists Reception is free and open to all. The exhibit is open through March 22. For complete details, visit roxburyartsgroup.org. 
In 1991 Mayes received a Guggenheim Fellowship to photograph in Hawaii, and with an Atherton Foundation grant (2003) published this work in a limited edition book titled "Ki'i No Hawai'i" in 2009.  Mayes' Hawaii photographs were exhibited at the Honolulu Museum of Art Spalding House (formerly known as The Contemporary Museum, Honolulu) in 2003.
Elaine Mayes has been an active visual artist since 1960. A main focus and emphasis for her work has been investigations of ‘seeing’ and documentary forms in photography. This interest led to a number of projects and seeking out various close at hand situations in the world as subject material for her photographs.
Elaine majored in painting and art history at Stanford University and then studied at the San Francisco Art Institute with John Collier, Jr. Paul Hassel, Minor White, Nathan Oliviera and Richard Diebenkorn. Between 1961 and 1968 she was an independent photojournalist working in San Francisco for magazines and graphic designers. During 1967 and 1968 she was a rock and roll photographer and photographed the ‘Summer of Love’ and scene in the Haight Ashbury District of San Francisco. One of her assignments was to photograph the Monterey Pop Festival. This work was published in her book called, “It Happened In Monterey.”
Elaine taught photography for thirty five years, beginning at the University of Minnesota in 1968. Then she taught at Hampshire College from 1971 to 1981, at Bard College during 1982 and 1983, and at New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts from 1983 until 2001. Elaine was Chair of the Tisch Photography Department from 1997 until her retirement from teaching. Currently she is Professor Emeritus and is living in the Catskill Mountains of New York actively continuing her work.
Elaine is affiliated with Getty Images, Joseph Bellows Gallery, Morrison Hotel Galleries, and Liberal Arts Roxbury.
This exhibit is generously sponsored by Roxbury Wine & Spirits. All programs offered by the Roxbury Arts Group are supported by the New York State Council on the Arts with the support of the office of the Governor and the NYS Legislature, the A. Lindsay & Olive B. O’Connor Foundation, the Robinson Broadhurst Foundation, the Tianaderrah Foundation, the Community Foundation for South Central New York, the Delaware National Bank of Delhi, and by the generosity of business sponsors and individual donors like you.

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Community Music Sing!

MARGARETVILLE — The Community Music Network is seeking adults, seniors, and teens who love to sing for a series of Community Sing events. This is a non-auditioned, fully inclusive group that will gather for the sole purpose of experiencing the therapeutic, socially unifying, and spiritually uplifting benefits of singing together as a community. Amateur shower singers to professionals who want to have a casual, fun group to sing with are welcome as strong singers will be paired with those who need support. A love for singing is the only requirement!

The non performing community singing group will explore rounds, improvisational and acapella singing, folk music traditions, and sing-a-long songs of various genres. It will be led by Community Music Network director and teaching artist, Pamela West-Finkle, who has nearly four decades of experience leading choirs, vocal coaching, and singing professionally. 

This event will take place monthly at various venues throughout the Catskills, and a love offering/non profit donation of $10 per person is suggested, but not required as participation is open to everyone regardless of ability to contribute. Light refreshments will be provided, but it is recommended that you bring your own water for vocal hydration. Events will be cancelled due to bad weather. 

The first two events will be held at the Open Eye Theater, located at 960 Main Street, Margaretville, New York on Saturday February 1, 2025 and Saturday March 1, 2025 from 3:00 to 4:30 pm. Tickets are Pay-What-You-Will and can be reserved at https://www.theopeneyetheater.org.

For more information, please call 607-441-8448 or email communitymusicnet@gmail.com. To contact the Open Eye Theater directly, call 845-586-1660 or email info@theopeneyetheater.org

Singing for the Sake of Singing!  Community Sing Events for Adults and Teens

Calling all shower singers!  Car crooners! Karaoke bar regulars! Armchair Broadway stars! 

The Community Music Network is seeking adults, seniors, and teens who love to sing for a series of Community Sing events. This is a non-auditioned, fully inclusive group that will gather for the sole purpose of experiencing the therapeutic, socially unifying, and spiritually uplifting benefits of singing together as a community. Amateur shower singers to professionals who want to have a casual, fun group to sing with are welcome as strong singers will be paired with those who need support. A love for singing is the only requirement!

The non performing community singing group will explore rounds, improvisational and acapella singing, folk music traditions, and sing-a-long songs of various genres. It will be led by Community Music Network director and teaching artist, Pamela West-Finkle, who has nearly four decades of experience leading choirs, vocal coaching, and singing professionally. 

This event will take place monthly at various venues throughout the Catskills, and a love offering/non profit donation of $10 per person is suggested, but not required as participation is open to everyone regardless of ability to contribute. Light refreshments will be provided, but it is recommended that you bring your own water for vocal hydration. Events will be cancelled due to bad weather. 

The first two events will be held at the Open Eye Theater, located at 960 Main Street, Margaretville, New York on Saturday February 1, 2025 and Saturday March 1, 2025 from 3:00 to 4:30 pm. Tickets are Pay-What-You-Will for these events and can be reserved at https://www.theopeneyetheater.org. The April and May Community Sings will be held at the Hobart Activity Center and over the summer, they will move to the Pleasant Valley Meeting House in Andes.

Thanks to grant funding from the Robinson Broadhurst Foundation, the O’Connor Foundation, The Community Foundation of SCNY, the Stewarts Giving Fund, and the Joyce and David Barber Giving Fund, the Community Music Network has been providing educational and therapeutic music programs for the young and the old in our community since receiving non profit status in 2020. One of the Community Music Network’s programs has been to develop a catalog of sing-a-long collections that have been utilized in both The Robinson Terrace Nursing and Rehabilitation Home and the Pavilion Senior Living, to much success. 

The idea for the community sing events started with several people approaching Community Music Director, Pam West-Finkle, about sing-a-longs for adults who were not in nursing homes, but for people who just love to sing and want to sing with a group without the pressure of performance.  

She began discussion with the Andes Historical Society in May 2024, and was approached by the Open Eye Theater to provide winter programming for the community, so the events will be held monthly to determine level of interest.  In addition, donations provided at the events will help provide community matches for grant funding, sustaining this type of therapeutic arts programming in the Catskills

For more information, please call 607-441-8448 or email communitymusicnet@gmail.com. 


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Pine Hill Community Center presents Felix Slim in Concert

World-renowned blues musician Felix Slim. Photo by Keran Woods


The Pine Hill Community Center is pleased to present world-renowned blues musician Felix Slim in concert Saturday, January 25th from 7-9pm.

One of Spain's leading blues musicians based in Brooklyn, NY, Felix Slim is entirely self-taught and specializes in blues, ragtime and swing from the 1920s to 1940s. Influenced by the Delta, Piedmont and Texas sound, he uses slide guitar, fingerpicking and standard open tunings, and has played his dynamic versions of blues classics and original songs with echoes of flamenco, rebetiko and jazz manouche on five albums and in over ten countries worldwide. 

Pine Hill Community Center is located at 287 Main Street, Pine Hill, NY 12465. The Felix Slim performance runs from 7-9pm and is free with a suggested donation of $10. All are welcome!

Pine Hill Community Center is dedicated to enriching the lives of the people in the Central Catskills Region by providing community-building activities that nurture creativity and lifelong growth. Information about this and all upcoming events can be found at pinehillcommunitycenter.org.


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A Conversation about the Gardener’s Junk Drawer





By Jean Thomas

We all have them. Junk drawers, that is. The kitchen is the most common one.  We keep bits of string, tape, zip ties, etc. ,which we can never find when we want them. I must confess, the only things I can ever find when I want them are duct tape and Allen wrenches. 

But if you have a garden, you have others, too. It isn’t always a drawer, because there are so many other options in the great out of doors. I have a shed. And a garage.  And a porch storage chest. Let’s start small, with the storage chest. The idea is always harmless.  It never ends there. The original objects are suddenly on top of the unit, jostled out by other important stuff. That’s if you have only a porch or patio. 

Once you have real storage space, you’re doomed. And a garage with storage space intentionally arranged is such a great idea. All those you tube videos and face book posts are meant to lead you into the trap of (gasp) crafts. There is room for pallets and those reels the phone guys will let you have off the back of their trucks. It’s better for the environment to keep them out of the land fill, anyway. And that thought grows more expansive. Broken garden stakes   or, heaven forfend, broken TOOLS, can always be tucked into a corner for future inspiration.  Never forget the most ubiquitous… shards from broken pots, terra cotta and ceramic alike. Everyone knows they are necessary when repotting things.( I am so successful at this that the mound of shards has grown to line the length of the garage.) I am prepared for several lifetimes of repotting and crafts.

All of this grows exponentially according to the space allocated. I have an old outhouse (a two-seater, BTW) converted to a shed for the explicit storage of garden ornaments and oversized containers.  I had to install shelves last season for the overflow. 

The garage is build with two stalls, one for the car and the other, with a lockable door, for storage. What’s a frugal gardener to do? Yup, I installed shelves and hooks, and ran poles across the ceiling. Seasonal items all have their place, as do the tools. Small containers and potting supplies, along with hand tools and electrical stuff like cords and lighting supplies and. the tarp collection all have a place. Being a garage, it is inevitable that the mechanic’s junk drawer section resides there, too. Nuts and bolts and hammers and cans of oil and other automotive (and lawnmower) exotica are arranged for me to admire.

Here is where the terrible truth rears its head. I am as undisciplined with the shed and the garage as I am with the kitchen junk drawer. But I have found the solution at last.

Once a year I call a friend who declares that her OCD (her diagnosis, not mine) kicks in whenever she comes to my house. I pay her for her time, even though I suspect she’d pay me. I go away, returning only when she phones me with the all clear. Then the two of us stand there admiring the beauty of an organized storage area, both in tears from gratitude. Sometimes there is photography involved.

She still refuses to tackle the kitchen. Go figure. There is hope, though. YouTube and Facebook have lots of posts to get you organized. Or you could make friends with a neat freak.


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THE CATSKILL GEOLOGISTS BY PROFESSORS ROBERT AND JOHANNA TITUS - The California Fires

The two of us have been watching the news from Los Angeles with a true sense of horror. This has not been a tragedy, nor a disaster, but it has been a true catastrophe. Thousands of homes have burned to the ground. All those people were abruptly forced to pick up their children, their pets, along with a few belongings and flee for their lives. They have suddenly become homeless. All of them are, right this minute, wondering where will they go and how will they ever recover. Some are probably even worrying about where will they sleep tonight. As we write (Jan 9th), we fear that the news will only get worse, perhaps much worse. We can’t do much help all those many people, but we feel a strong obligation that we should try to make clear what has happened to them. We are scientists; we can offer explanations that you should know and also, more importantly, understand. We are grateful to have The Mountain Eagle to encourage us to offer that explanation.

The story begins in something called the Great Basin, a gigantic lowland that covers much of the landscape east of California’s Sierra Nevada Mountains. See our first illustration, courtesy of Wikipedia Commons. Autumns and winters are times of the year when the basin is affected by a prevailing high-pressure system. Think of it as filling up with great masses of heavy air. Whenever there is low pressure along the Pacific coast then “heavy” Great Basin air currents can enter into nearby mountain passes where they can flow southwest and downhill to make their escapes. These become what are known as the Santa Ana winds. You may well have heard of them, but have you understood them? Well, that is our goal here and now.

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The southern part of the Great Basin is the Mojave Desert, always a hot and dry landscape. See our second illustration, again courtesy of Wikipedia Commons. It shows masses of air funneled into and descending through four of those mountain passes, lying just southwest of the Mojave Desert and just northeast of Los Angeles. Notice that the artist has tinted them blue to the east, yellow in the middle and red in the west. That shows desert air masses, which had already been warm, becoming even hotter as they descend those four slopes. Air masses always warm up as they descend. At the same time the relative humidity declines; the desert air becomes even drier. As these air masses squeeze into those passes, they must speed up and become hot, dry howling winds – the Santa Ana winds. And, as you and we have seen, there was the whole Los Angeles community, standing in the way

We can guess one of your questions: yes, all this has been known about and understood for many years, even many decades. Why weren’t people better prepared?

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Contact the authors at randjtitus@prodigy.net. Join their facebook page “The Catskill Geologist.” Read their blogs at “thecatskillgeologist.com.”


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Bruised Fruit #15

By Max Oppen

Moving on from anything—whether it’s active addiction, a job, or even a relationship—isn’t easy. It takes time. One hundred and sixty-eight days have passed since I overdosed. In the recovery world, while that’s just a drop in the bucket, each day somebody stays sober can be considered some type of miracle. Every sober day is a victory, no matter how small.

Separation changes everything. Whether from a person, a way of life, or reality itself, it redefines your world and reshapes who you are. There are so many paths in this life and choices—each one with the potential to lead us closer to or farther from the person we want to become.

Separating myself from addiction has been transformative. Who I was just under six months ago is far from who I am today. Back then, I was drowning in darkness, using drugs to numb the pain of living and to escape from problems that felt insurmountable. Today, I am stronger in many ways, and I am keenly aware of the dangers of using substances to hide from the world. The facade of comfort they offered came at a steep price: my peace, my relationships, my sense of self.

With time, distance grows. Lovers become strangers. The world you were once part of—that felt so consuming—becomes foreign. And the separation—both physical and emotional—leaves a mark. It’s not just a clean break; it’s messy and painful. It’s lonely and, frankly, just fucking sad. There are days when the ache of it all feels unbearable. But that pain has a strange beauty because it means I’m feeling again.

As time passes, the rituals and routines that once defined my life—the endless cycle of using, hiding, and surviving—feel more distant. The longer I stay clean, the harder it is to comprehend the crazy shit I put myself and others through. In just under six months, I’ve gained enough clarity to see how drugs devastated my life. And while the destruction is undeniable, I’ve come to understand it as a harsh teacher. The lessons are brutal, but they’re necessary to grow, find peace, and never make the same mistakes again.

The cravings still come. They creep in unexpectedly, like uninvited guests. But the separation has helped. It’s given me the space to reflect and to see myself more clearly—both the man I was and the man I’m becoming. Regret lingers; it doesn’t fade as quickly as I’d like. But regret, I’ve learned, can be a powerful motivator. Each day presents choices, and each choice comes with consequences. It’s a simple truth that I’d ignored for far too long.

Narcotics Anonymous says, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.” Admitting to that insanity is a tough pill to swallow. But it’s the truth. I repeated the same destructive patterns over and over until I hit rock bottom. Only then did I begin to see the insanity for what it was.

Experiencing life by being present is a gift I no longer take for granted. I am deeply grateful that I survived, and I know I couldn’t have made it this far alone. It really did take a village to pull me back to solid ground. Friends, family, counselors, and strangers played a part in my recovery; I’ll always be thankful for that.

They say time heals all wounds, but I’m not sure I fully agree. Losing friends, partners, and parts of myself feels permanent. The damage is raw and will be for some time. But healing isn’t about erasing the past but learning to live with it. The Spanish-American philosopher George Santayana said, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” So, while time may soften the edges of my pain, I’ll never forget the lessons it taught me. Remembering is part of the healing.

I don’t know what the future holds, but I know this: I’m moving forward, one day at a time. Each day is a chance to make better choices, to build a better life, and to continue the long and winding road of recovery. It’s not easy. It’s not perfect. But it’s worth it.



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Whittling Away with Dick Brooks - Typical Winter Day

The recent cold weather would probably be the main topic of conversation if I could find someone to discuss it with.  Everyone has "holed up".  Oh sure, there are still a few local joggers and walkers that waddle by bundled up to the extent that they just vaguely resemble life forms and not laundry bags that became suddenly mobile.  You can't even recognize the folks driving by in their cars and trucks.  All the vehicles are the same road-salt white and everyone is so wrapped up that they're unrecognizable.  The ones that know you can't even wave because of all the clothes they've got on.  Even the Hamlet's social center, the Post Office, is affected by the intense cold.  You can now go in and get your mail and be out of there and back into your car in a minute or so.  On a summer day, it usually takes a half an hour or so and involves at least a half dozen nice conversations, but now, it's leave the car running and dash from one warm area to the next as quickly as possible.

The bright sunshine and crystal clear skies, usually associated with the coldest weather, almost always lure me outside.  Having grown up in upstate New York where it was frequently twenty or thirty below and having a Mom whose favorite saying was, "Sun's out, you're out"!  I try to be faithful about taking my morning constitutional.  I usually add layers until I resemble the Pillsbury Dough Boy, a process that takes about a half an hour on a good day because the more layers you add, the slower you go and then penguin-walk out onto the porch.  The "crinklies" hit almost instantly, you've had them--eyes squint, nostrils slam shut and your lungs start to crystalize.  The only other living things in the arctic landscape that used to be my backyard are the chickadees, sitting in the shrubs and bushes, fluffed up to the size of volley balls, they remind me that the feeders need filling.  I squeak my way to the food container and squeak my way back to the feeder with a shovel full of seed.  

There are a couple of kids waiting for the school bus at the bus stop and I watch them for a while as they try to get their noses unstuck from their jacket sleeves, it brings back fond memories.  I decided to waddle on my way.  I made it almost a hundred yards before turning around, that's enough fresh air for anyone!  I stopped for a few moments to try to get the ice out of my mustache  so I could breath without whistling.  That's when I noticed the neighbor's dog.  The poor critter was frozen in a classic three legged stance to the metal light pole near the road.  My first reaction was, "He got himself into this, let him get himself out of it", I did yell in an encouraging tone, "Spring's on the way" and started for the house.  His pleading whine thawed the frozen cockles ( what ever they may be ) of my heart and I turned back to rescue him.  A mighty tug and he was free and running down the street in a kind of knock-kneed way yelping his head off.  I felt kind of bad until I remembered that they were going to have him fixed in the spring anyway.  I squeaked my way to the back door and spent more time getting undressed than I had spent outside.  Exhausted, I made a cup of cocoa and headed for my recliner and clicked on The Discovery Channel!  Have you noticed the recent lack of programs about Global Warming lately?

Thought for the week--Having a tough day dealing with people?  Just remember that half of all the people on the Earth are below average.

Until next week, may you and yours be happy and well.

whittle12124  


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